Whoever derides their neighbor has no sense, but the one who has understanding holds his tongue. (Proverbs 11:12 NIV)
Our words affect others.
When we choose to laugh at others, especially with contempt or bitterness, we demonstrate our own lack of good sense. Even in careless, unplanned moments, when we offhandedly deride someone else without thinking, we can cause harm and hurt.
On the other hand, when we hold our tongue and resist the urge to speak unkindly, we demonstrate our understanding. At those impulsive moments, when our tongue speaks before we restrain it, the person of understanding has some options.
As soon as we recognize the derisiveness of our words, we can stop. What a gift to be able to recognize this in ourselves! And if our bitterness or contempt brings direct harm on another, we can seek to make amends.
Today, I will pray for the understanding to hold my tongue rather than to deride anyone, the humility to think more highly of others than I do of myself, and to pray for those who persecute me.
Saint Bartholomew, one of the twelve Apostles, pray for us.
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